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The Master of Deception

  • Writer: VUYOLWETHU
    VUYOLWETHU
  • Dec 10, 2018
  • 3 min read

WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING FOR?

The world I am/we are surrounded by has many deals that it offers and like many other people I find myself seeking for something that most of us are not able to put in words. This world is not biased when it offers deals, as it presents you with both the sweet and bitter deals and the choice is always yours to make, it just needs to be right one.


WHAT GUIDES YOUR CHOICES

However the choice is not always easy to make because the world is also the master of deception, a bad offer can come with sparkling and attractive wrapping making it very tempting[the lady in a red dress]. On the other side a good offer can be next to bad odour and making it very undesirable to a point that no one would dare stand close. And in most cases we are deceived by this lady in a red dress, taking the bad offer, only to end up with regrets and try to hide the shame as it becomes a burden in our lives, because no one wants to face the mistake or that failure is life but just presented in another form and as long as you’re alive mchana!, you experience it one way or another. You can't always make the right choice, like I said, there's a lot to choose from.


AM I YOUR PERFECT CHOICE

I obviously can't provide an answer to this question above because I don't know what happens when people shut their doors. But it's clear what is it that we are seeking and cannot put in words and it's just to be happy. Happiness is what we all desire most in life, going through extreme lengths to achieve it. We come up with many lies/thingamajigs to prove how we've reached the highest zen level, lying only to ourselves and this often leads to self destructive behaviors. This can be very dangerous especially when it's two people involved, because when we are making thingamajigs fit/ let me say rules in relationships we set unrealistic standards causing anxiety and stress of keeping up with the lies. The lies don't really make a good foundation for a relationship either, they cause lack of trust with sex being the only thing left to keeping the relationship intact. And once the juices are out of the system so does the elastic that was holding things together. The famous couples that we only get to see public at their convenience and always coming out on pictures looking gorgeous and hot, do not always and, are not obligated to be perfect as we might think they are.


CAUTION

Not all things that come in sparkling wrapping are bad deals from the world, for all I know the lady in the red dress could be innocent red riding hood[no pun here]. To be cautious though, I always strive to be aware of what influences my thoughts and decisions, devote to a simple positive affirmation related to the part of myself I need better control of. I seek happiness within myself first by doing and focusing on the things that I love first like this blog, music and connecting with my Universe-that is, strengthening my beliefs and values. When I go out to the world I don't only know what is it that I stand for, I also don't get tangled up in the illusions or get deceived by promises of true happiness. Because I get to know myself, my true happiness, not have just an Idea of what it is which get’s stuck on the tip of my tongue.


Grab and embrace that stinking deal and find your true happiness..

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